Wedding procession and exit: customs and traditions
Every wedding is a unique story, but certain traditions remain timeless, adding a touch of elegance and symbolism to this exceptional day. These include the bridal procession (also known as the entrance procession) and the ceremony exit. Both moving and festive, these key moments can be adapted to reflect the personality of the bride and groom, while honoring ancestral customs.
These key moments can be organized in many different ways. We share our experiences with you!
The bridal procession for a civil or secular ceremony: an entrance filled with meaning
The bridal procession is much more than a simple parade. It’s a symbolic way of announcing the arrival of the bride and groom, spotlighting their loved ones, and setting the tone for the ceremony.
Traditional organization
In the classical tradition, the order of the procession is carefully structured:
– Children of honor: carrying flowers or wedding rings, they lead the way with magical innocence.
– Witnesses and bridesmaids: accompanying the bride and groom, they play a key role, supporting them every step of the way.
– The groom: usually arriving on the arm of his mother, he embodies the solemnity of the moment.
– The bride: all eyes are on her as she advances, often on her father’s arm, to carefully chosen music.
Modern adaptations of wedding ceremonies
Today, couples like to personalize the moment. Some choose to enter together to symbolize equality in their union, while others prefer to integrate additional relatives or include culturally specific elements, such as traditional musicians or live singers.
Don’t forget to give parents who are not accompanying the bride and groom a choice. They’ll feel just as important!
A question that comes up a lot: which side should the groom stand on? the bride-to-be?
Traditionally, in the bridal procession, the groom walks to the right of the bride-to-be. This custom dates back to the Middle Ages, when the groom kept his right hand free to protect his bride in case of danger.
Today, this position is mostly symbolic. The bride walks on the left, on the side of the heart, which adds a romantic touch.
However, nothing prevents couples from modifying this order according to their desires or the organization of the ceremony. The important thing is that it suits them.
Ceremony exit: the start of the party
The ceremony exit is a moment of pure joy. It’s the moment when the bride and groom, now united, share their happiness with their guests. It can take place directly in the ceremony space, outside the room (if the ceremony is held indoors) or on our premises, often on one of our two terraces.
Timeless traditions
– Throwing rice or petals: a classic, symbolizing fertility and prosperity. At Portes des Iris, we only allow petals, but indoors and synthetic. Today, alternatives such as soap (or Champagne) bubbles are gaining in popularity.
– Hedge of honor: guests gather to form a festive aisle, creating a joyful atmosphere in the bride and groom’s colors.
– Ringing bells: a timeless way to mark the moment with flair, especially for religious weddings.
A more modern touch
Some couples opt for more contemporary elements:
– Colorful smoke bombs for a spectacular visual effect.
– Live music or a specially chosen tune to accompany their exit.
– Dove releases or even drones to immortalize the moment from the air.
Our tips for successful organization
1. Rehearse with your nearest and dearest: a rehearsal helps to avoid the unexpected, especially if children are involved. The duration of each piece of music is important, as is the marching rhythm and the seating arrangements for those in the bridal party.
2. Personalize these moments: your wedding should reflect your story. Don’t hesitate to include details that are dear to you.
3. Collaborate with your suppliers: talk to your photographer and wedding planner to maximize the visual and emotional impact of these moments.
4. Choose sustainable options: whether it’s for decorations or releases, opt for choices that respect the environment.
An unforgettable moment
The bridal procession and ceremony exit are unforgettable moments that mark the beginning and end of your official engagement. Whether classic or revisited, these moments create a unique atmosphere and allow you to share your happiness with your loved ones.
Take the time to prepare them carefully, and let the magic happen: it’s these little details that will make your wedding an unforgettable memory!
February 2025, Corinne Salvisberg Perrone